Silence

So...apparently you're not supposed to tell anyone you are pregnant until after a certain point in time. In case there are problems. While I can certainly understand that, and "especially for the first one", I'm conflicted about 'don't tell'. We _want_ our friends to know. Frankly because A: they'll be happy for us, B: they'll be supportive (esp given my blind ass can't drive), and C: several of them have kids of their own and can...and will, give advice. If something doesn't turn out...we try and try again. Thats how we do, and that's how life works. Besides, the practice is _FUN_!



Admittedly, we're not telling everyone. Both of my best male friends are out of the country right now, and I've not told either them nor their wives...'course, thats mostly due to me not wanting them to be paying $5 a minute to find out. (I could start a 900 number service for baby names...hmmmm....). But even outside of W and M, we're not telling everyone...yet. At the least until after we get the first appointment done. And we're not even telling all of our close friends yet, so don't even start with me, O you whom we have not told...yet.